
Time can, and, does change everything.
Moments for pause and reflection, seeing what’s important in life. Healing takes place, allowing us to see things for what they truly are. Perceptions in life, no longer the same. A different person, a different mentality.
How can one be so blind to the reality of life? We all, at some point in our life, lack communication, receive mixed messages, or simply don’t speak and articulate as effectively as we may think.
The beauty in life, when something goes wrong, it’s a stepping stone for our own growth and understanding. A new beginning-time to let things go. Hurt and wrongdoing from the past, sometimes resurfaces. Thinking the storm had gone, passed, run its course, having forgiven and moved on.
I am understanding and realizing that feeling these feelings, thinking back to those days is okay for its just a part of letting go, part of the healing process. What matters most is that those feelings are acknowledged, but not a place to live and dwell in. There has been much forgiveness that has taken place and loving of oneself.
Guilt likes to try and find a way in my thoughts, my mind, which in turn impacts my heart, stirring up emotions. I will allow these thoughts to wander, and remind them they are just passing through. These thoughts will not take control over me.
To live a balanced life filled with harmony and peace, it’s best to fill the mind with healthy thoughts, which I do know, can be challenging at times. Each time, the mind becomes stronger, the thoughts weaker, creating new patterns and habits of mind. More focused, more grateful for everything in life.
Perhaps I haven’t quite reached that level of perfection, advancing to my higher self. What I have accomplished and achieved consists of baby steps, slow progress with self-improvement, becoming a better person on many levels—the best person I can be.